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A touchy story
Posted September 5, 2010 by rahindr
Assalamualaikum.

It's a true story about a Muslim man named Rashid. He says .. 'I was not a practising Muslim, I had bad friends. I enjoyed going out with them. I was almost never home, but always at gatherings with friends, in these gatherings we backbited, gossiped and made fun of people, Iwas,especially known among my friends to make jokes and ppl were impressed by the way I was so good at it.

One night (at the time I was 30 and married and my wife was pregnant with our first child) I was as usual gathered with my friends and talking useless talk. I was telling them how I was at the market one day and I saw a blind man and I put my leg out in front of this man and the blind man tripped and fell on his face.. My friends laughed and so on.

When I went back home that night, my wife told me 'where have you been?' 'I am so tired and sick and I think I am in labour.' A tear dropped down her cheek. I felt guilty, for I hadn't cared about my wife properly. I quickly took her to the hospital.

She was in pain for a long time and could not give birth, I waited patiently, but eventually I left and told the hospital to call me when she gave birth. An hour later, they called telling me my wife had given birth to baby boy who we named Saleem.

I quickly went to the hospital. I asked which room my wife was in. They told me I first had to see the doctor. I got mad at them and said 'What doctor? I want to see my son!?!' they insisted that I see the
doctor first.

So I went to the doctor, she first talked to me about calamities and that one must accept the will (qadar) of Allah. Then she told me, 'your son is blind!' and as he tried to comfort me , I lowered my head and remembered the blind man I tripped and made fun of I didn't know what to say, I thanked the doctor for her kindness and went to see my wife.

My wife was not sad, rather she accepted the will of Allah (swt). She had
always advised me not to make fun of people and not to gossip
and backbite.

We left the hospital. I did not care about Saleem, I did not like him, I pretended that he wasn't even in the house. But, my wife loved Saleem
very much and cared for him. Saleem grew and he began to crawl, he wasn't crawling properly.
When he began to walk, we discovered that he was
handicapped.

This was too much for me. Later, we were blessed by the Almighty
as my wife gave birth to 2 boys, Omar and Khalid.

Years passed, Saleem and his brothers grew. I continued to hang out with my bad friends and did not like to be at home. However, my wife was patient and was very understanding with me and she always made dua that Allah guide me.

O ne Friday, I woke up at 11 am (which was early for me) and was getting ready to go to a friends gathering (I did not go to
ummah). I got dressed, put on a sweater, and was about to head out the door when I saw Saleem (who was 10 yrsold) crying very loudly in the living room. So, for the first time in 10 years I cared and went to ask him why he was crying. When Saleem felt me coming near, he stopped crying and pushed me away as he made his way to his bedroom as if to say, 'Now you care, where were you for the past 10 years!' Saleem was calling his mother and brothers, but no one was answering him, so he went to his room. I followed him At first, he would not tell me why he was crying. Do you know why he was crying?

All because his brother Omar, who normally took him to the masjid, was late. Saleem was afraid that since it was a Friday, he would not be able to get a spot in the front row at the mosque. I said, 'is that why you cried Saleem?' to which he answered positively. I, out of disbelief from what I heard, forgot about my friends and the gathering.
Someone inside me compelled to tell Saleem that I would take him to the
masjid.

Saleem could not believe what he had heard. He thought his father was mocking him. He then began to cry but this time it was with joy. I wiped Saleem's tears and took him by his hand to take him to the car. Saleem refused. He said the masjid is near, and he wants to walk there by
foot. I could not remember the last time I went to the masjid.

The masjid was full, but I was able to find a spot for Saleem in the first row. After prayer was over, Saleem asked me to get him a copy of the Quran. I thought, 'how can he want a Quran if he is blind!!!!' so I gave him one anyway so that his feelings would not be hurt. Saleem then
asked me to open to surat al-kahf. So when I opened it for him, Saleem began to recite. He had memorized the entire surah. I felt embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I took a Quran and began to read.

I asked Allah for forgiveness and guidance. I then began to sob like a child. There were still people in the masjid, so I tried to hide my tears.. I couldn't. I began to sob loudly.

I felt a small hand wiping my tears away. It was Saleem. He hugged me and I thought, 'you aren't the blind one, for I am, because I ran after the evil people who would drag me into hell-fire.' From that day on I never missed a prayer at the masjide. My wife was really happy. I left all my bad friends and tasted the sweetness of Iman. I went to halaqas. I became closer to Allah and to my family. I thanked Allah for this great
blessing.

One day my pious friends decided to go to a far away place to make dawah and asked me join him. I hesitated about going, I made istikharah and asked my wife, to my surprise she encouraged me to go. She was so happy for me to go as before I used to travel without asking her. I told Saleem that I would be traveling, he hugged me with his tiny arms, bidding me farewell.

I was away for 3 months and I would call my family and I missed them greatly, especially Saleem. Whenever, I called I would ask for him but he was eith er at school or the masjid. Everytime I told my wife how much I missed him, she would laugh cheerfully. Except for the last call,

she did not laugh but her voice had changed. I told her to say salam to Saleem and the other children and she said 'Insha Allah' and was quiet.

I finally came back home and hoped Saleem would open the door for me, but Khaled did. Then I saw my wife, her face had changed. I asked her 'what's wrong?' she replied 'nothing.' Then I remembered Saleem was nowhere to be seen, I asked 'where is he?' My wife lowered her head
and did not answer. A tear dropped down her cheek.

I screamed at her, 'where's Saleem, where is he?''
My son Khaled (4 yrs old), said 'Daddy, Saleem went to Jannah, he is with Allah.' My wife could not handle it and she broke down in tears and left the room.. I found out later that Saleem had got sick with a fever and went to hospital 2 weeks before I arrived.

The fever worsened and his mother stayed by his side and until his soul
departed his body.'

NEVER TAKE ANYONE FOR GRANTED;
YOU MAY NOT REALISE HOW LITTLE
TIME WE HAVE LEFT. EVEN THE
SMALLEST/WEAKEST PERSON IN THIS
WORLD CAN MAKE AN IMPACT; AFTER
ALL WE ALL SHARE THE SAME
CREATOR MAY THE ALMIGHTY MAKE
US HUMBLE INSHALLAH.
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rahindr
Dear sisters
The virtue of the Last Ten Days of Ramadhaan and Laylat Al-Qadr-5

The practice of the Prophet during the Last Ten Nights

'Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “When the last ten days of Ramadhaan came, the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam would stay up all night, wake his family and gird his loins”. <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim>. In the book of Imaam Muslim the narration read: “He strove hard and girded his loins”. Imaam Ibn Hajar, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said: “His staying all night was in worship and acts of obedience, and the reason he woke his family was for them to pray the optional night prayers, and girding his loins referred to him abstaining from sleeping with his wives”
‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “The Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam used to strive hard (in worship) during the last ten days of Ramadhaan in a way that he did not strive at any other times.” <Muslim>
Zaynab Bint Umm Salamah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “Whenever the last ten nights of Ramadhaan came, the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam would not leave any member of his family who could physically pray the night prayers but would wake them up.” <At-Tirmithi>

The Way of the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, in I’tikaaf
‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “The Prophet, sallallaahualayhi wa sallam, used to do I’tikaaf (residing in the mosque with the intention of worship) during the last ten days of Ramadhaan until he passed away, then his wives did I’tikaaf after him”
Ibn ‘Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported: “The Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, used to do I’tikaaf during the last ten days of Ramadhaan” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim>
‘Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “When the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, wanted to do I’tikaaf, he would pray Fajr, then enter the place where he was to do I’tikaaf” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslims>
Once the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, wanted to do I’tikaaf in the last ten nights of Ramadhaan, so he commanded a small tent be placed for him in the mosque. Zaynab, may Allaah be pleased with her, also commanded a tent be placed for her for I’tikaaf, and after that other wives of the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, commanded likewise. After he, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, prayed the Fajr prayer he noticed the tents and commanded his tent to be removed and did not resume I’tikaaf the remaining part of Ramadhaan, and instead he went into I’tikaaf the first ten nights of the month of Shawwaal. This proves that he, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, had a special isolated area away form the people for I’tikaaf that was enough only for him.



Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported: “The Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam used to perform I’tikaaf every year in the month of Ramadhaan for ten days, and when it was the year of his death, he stayed in I’tikaaf for twenty days”. <Al-Bukhaari>
Ibn ‘Umar, may Allaah be pleased with him, narrated that the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam said: “Seek Laylatul-Qadr (i.e. the night of decree) in the last ten days of Ramadhaan” <Al-Bukhaari>
Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: “The Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, did I’tikaaf during the first ten days of Ramadhaan, then he did I’tikaaf during the middle ten days in a Turkish tent <a circular structure> in which a mat was placed. He said: “So he, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, took the mat in his hand and put it at the side of the tent, then he raised his head to speak to the people, so they came closer to him. He, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, said: “I did I’tikaaf during the first ten days, seeking this night, then I did I’tikaaf during the middle ten days. Then someone came to me and told me that it is in the last ten days, so whoever among you wants to do I’tikaaf, let him do so.” So the people did I’tikaaf with him. He, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, said: “I was shown an odd-numbered night, in the morning of which I was prostrating in mud and water”.Then in the morning of the twenty-first, he, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, got up to pray the Fajr prayer and it was raining; the roof of the mosque leaked, and there was mud and water. He, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, came out when he had finished praying, and there was mud and water on his forehead and nose. That was the morning of the twenty-first, one of the last ten days. <Muslim>
Abu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam said: “Whoever stays up praying during Laylatul-Qadr (i.e. in prayer) out of faith and in the hope of Allaah’s reward, all his previous sins will be forgiven.” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim>
'Aa’ishah, may Allaah be pleased with her, reported: “When the Messenger of Allaah sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam was in I’tikaaf, he inclined his head towards me and I combed his hair whilst I was on my menses inside my room (i.e. which overlooked the mosque), and he did not enter the house except for a need (i.e. relieving himself).” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim> He, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam would walk his wives back home if any of them visited him in the mosque during I’tikaaf.
Al-Husayn Ibn Ali, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported: “Safiyyah the wife of the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam came and visited him during his I’tikaaf in the mosque during the last ten days of Ramadhaan. She spoke with him for a while, then she stood up to go home. The Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam stood up with her to walk her back, then when she reached the door of the mosque, by the door of Umm Salamah, two men of the Ansaar passed by and greeted the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, and rapidly moved away. The Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, said to them: “Wait, this is Safiyyah bint Huyay.” They said: “Subhaanallaah, O Messenger of Allaah!” They felt distressed (that he thought they might think something bad). The Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, said: “The devil is as close to a man as his blood.” In another report: “The devil flows through the veins of a man like blood. I was afraid that the devil might cast some evil ideas into your hearts.” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim>
Ibn Al-Qayyim, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said: “Whenever the Prophet sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam was in I’tikaaf, a mat would be placed for him and a bed, and if he went out to use the bathroom, he would not talk to anyone, and his I’tikaaf area was small, unlike what some ignorant people do by making their area fit ten people so that they can receive visitors. This is contrary to the manner of the Prophet’s I’tikaaf
rahindr
Dear sisters.
The virtue of the Last Ten Days of Ramadhaan and Laylat Al-Qadr-4


We should seek it especially in the odd-numbered nights, i.e., on the twenty-first, the twenty-third, the twenty-fifth, the twenty-seventh and the twenty-ninth. It was also reported that the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, said: “Seek it in the last ten nights, on the odd-numbered nights.” <Al-Bukhaari and Muslim>

It is most likely to be on the night of the twenty-seventh. This is according to the saying of the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam: “Laylat Al-Qadr is the night of the twenty-seventh.” <Ahmad and Abu Daawood> The view that it is the night of the twenty-seventh is the opinion of most of the Companions, may Allaah be pleased with them, and the majority of scholars. Ubayy ibn Ka’b, may Allaah be pleased with him, used to assert, without saying “Inshaa Allaah-God willing” that: “…it was the night of the twenty-seventh. Zurr ibn Hubaysh, may Allaah be pleased with him, said to Ubayy, may Allaah be pleased with him: ‘I said: What makes you say that, O Abu’l-Munthir (i.e. Ubay)?’ He, may Allaah be pleased with him, said: ‘By the signs of which the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, told us: that the sun rises that morning with no visible rays.’” <Muslim>

The fact that it is more likely the night of the twenty-seventh –Allaah knows best – does not mean that this is always the case. It could be any of the other odd-numbered nights of the last ten days of Ramadhaan. Some of the scholars ruled that it is more likely that it moves and does not come on a specific night each year.

Allaah has concealed this night so that His slaves will strive to seek it, and will strive hard in worship, just as He has concealed the blessed hour of Friday.

Therefore, we should strive hard during the days and nights of these ten days, seeking Laylat Al-Qadr and following the example of our Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, and we should strive in supplication and seeking to draw close to Allaah Almighty
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