i am an indonesian student in university....i am from an ordinary family,,, i love to study about Islam. I wish all the best in my life according to the straight way. i will try to learn Islam always in my life till die...this is my promise..Insha Allah
Walaikum salam warahmatullah The Muslim who adheres to the beliefs of Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah knows that “whatever befalls him could not have missed him, and whatever misses him could not have befallen him,” so he implements the means of attaining happiness and does what Allaah has enjoined upon... View MoreWalaikum salam warahmatullah The Muslim who adheres to the beliefs of Ahl al-Sunnah wa’l-Jamaa’ah knows that “whatever befalls him could not have missed him, and whatever misses him could not have befallen him,” so he implements the means of attaining happiness and does what Allaah has enjoined upon him without falling short, and if Allaah does not decree good for him, then whatever befalls him is a test by means of which Allaah expiates his bad deeds and raises him in status. And if an evil whisper from Shaytaan (Satan) tries to turn you away (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) (from doing good), then seek refuge in Allaah. Verily, He is the All‑Hearer, the All‑Knower” <Fussilat 41:34-36> You should realize that this depression will cause you mental and physical illnesses if you continue to give in to it. You have to start treating yourself and face reality, and realize that people are of different natures and you will find both good and bad with them, and that there are others who are suffering far worse than you are suffering. You have no option but to follow the prescribed means of seeking tranquillity so that you can start to enjoy a life of peace and contentment with no worry or distress. You can do the following to help yourself. 1.)Accept the decree of Allaah, may He be exalted. 2.)Always remember Allaah, which includes reciting the du’aa’s which are aimed at dealing with such matters. I posted some in your first blog for depression. Take some time to learn them. 3) Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Those who believed (in the Oneness of Allaah — Islamic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allaah verily, in the remembrance of Allaah do hearts find rest” <al-Ra’d 13:28> 4)It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no-one who is afflicted by distress and grief, and says: ‘Allaahumma inni ‘abduka ibn ‘abdika ibn amatija naasyati bi yadika, maada fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka. As’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghayb ‘indaka an taj’al al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’ huzni wa dhihaab hammi (O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your maidservant; my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You which You have named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the Unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety),’ but Allaah will take away his distress and grief, and replace it with joy.” It was said to him: “O Messenger of Allaah, should we learn this?” He said: “Of course; everyone who hears it should learn it.” Narrated by Ahmad (3704); classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (199). Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: One of the means of finding tranquillity is always remembering Him in all situations and in all places, for dhikr has an amazing impact in bringing tranquillity and a sense of joy, and neglecting it has an amazing impact in causing a sense of distress, anxiety and pain. Zaad al-Ma’aad (2/22). 5)Filling one’s time with seeking knowledge, calling people to Allaah and reading the biographies of the righteous. Watching unnecessary programmes on TV for example will not help your cause. 6) Stopping looking at haraam things, mixing with people unnecessarily, overeating and oversleeping. Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Another means of finding tranquillity is to stop looking, speaking, listening, mixing with people, eating and sleeping more than is necessary, because these excesses will turn to pain, worry and distress in the heart, and will cause strain, stress and pain. Indeed, most of the punishments in this world and in the Hereafter result from these things. Zaad al-Ma’aad (2/22). You will find – if Allaah wills – that this worry, distress and sense of unhappiness that you feel will disappear, and will be replaced with tranquillity and peace of mind. We ask Allaah to relieve you of worries and distress. We ask Him, may He be exalted, to increase your reward and to help you to remember Him, thank Him and worship Him properly. Your Sister In Islam Umm Hussain
waalaikumsalam warohmatullah dear mom.....hehehe... i am fine thanks. everyone here r fine alhamdulillah. by the way how about islam world in ur country? hmmm most of people in my country are moslem
Last Update on February 28, 2010 by nurmala hayati
waalaikumsalam dear sister....i am fine thanks and hw abt u how r u? i was a bit busy due to college task and examinations of this semester.. where ur friend live in Indonesia? where the province here? abt me, ia m in east java very nice u both met in mecca al mukarromah,,the best place in this world.. i never go there but i am sure 1 day i will do hajj there,,ameen
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